“The future is something I manage. The past is something I feel.” That’s a really hard prompt for me because, … More
Tag: family
The Relationship That Shaped Me Most
“A strict father doesn’t show love in hugs or kind words—he shows it in boundaries, discipline, and the strength he … More
can’t think of a new one right now
If I’m being completely honest… I never really looked at cars as a form of self-expression. Being the practical guy … More
I am Great with Kids
Last night I went over to my middle daughter’s house for dinner. We’ve turned that into a Christmas tradition over … More
1957 A year when kids were raised to be adults.
I was born in 1957. Obviously, I don’t remember a single thing about that year itself. I don’t remember the … More
What Skills or Lessons Have I Learned Recently?
Recently, I’ve learned something that sounds simple, but took me a lifetime to understand: real love isn’t a feeling you … More
We Didn’t Replace What We Tore Down in the 1970’s
I’ve been thinking a lot about the tragedy involving Rob Reiner and his son, but not for the reason most … More
Why Good Parents Always Earn My Admiration
When I think about what really sparks my admiration, it’s good parenting. Real parenting. The kind that isn’t always pretty, … More
The Year My Granddaughter Got Hooked on Fishing
If I stop and think about the past year, one moment rises above everything else—and it still puts a smile … More
My father’s best Birthday
“Though nobody can go back and make a new beginning, anyone can start over and make a new ending.” One … More
Modern Cars: Same Jellybean, Different Size
My recent experience with my 2016 VW Golf wagon made me realize something I should’ve understood a long time ago: … More
Choosing My Young Family Over Chaos
— The Hardest Decision I’ve Faced The hardest decision I ever made was stepping back from my own sister when … More