it’s better to win people over than to try to win over them.

If someone insulted you yesterday and needed your help today, would you let resentment make the decision for you? I’ve … More

Fear

Fear Can Sometimes Be a Good Thing If You Do Something About It What has driven me to take care … More

A funny thing about aging: it always hits everybody else first. You run into an old friend and think, Holy … More

I’ve watched this play out my whole life, in business, in friendships, even within families. Strength attracts people. Weakness pushes … More

When I’m writing this I’m sixty-nine, and one hundred still sounds like something you see on TV. The cameras show … More

Failure Is Usually Just a Delayed Introduction to Success When you get to my age, you realize something interesting about … More

In 2001 my nervous system blew a fuse. That’s the simplest way to describe it. What started as stress and … More

“A healthy man has many goals, a sick man has one.” When I look back over my life and ask … More

Most people think of life as a series of chapters where you close one and move on to the next, … More

. If I could be someone else for a day, I wouldn’t pick a celebrity or a billionaire. I wouldn’t … More

If I could give advice to my teenage self, I would tell him not to waste so much energy arguing … More

I’ve noticed over the years that certain things bore me more than others, and most of them have one thing … More